Comments on: Pleasure Bouquets: Chaos

By: emmajames

emmajames — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 06:51:15 +0000

OC: I like your attitude. Sometimes, you truly scare me. Then I remember the walrus.

Egan: Good to see you back. And funny you should mention a trip out of the country. Have you perhaps been spying on my tweets? I haven’t mentioned my future travels plans yet on Pleasure Notes, but let this serve as a teaser… I’m plotting away – ha, ha, ha!!!

Kat: Wow. Well, thank you for the suggestions. I’m so used to self-deprecating and using definitive language, I don’t even notice it anymore. I appreciate the gentle reminder. My mother would love you. And, hey, feel free to be as new agey as you want. I love that you read what I have to say and care enough to respond.

This blogging thing is a strange and wonderful world, and I am still finding my wings. It ain’t always gonna be pretty, but I like knowing you guys are all out here too.

By: Kat

Kat — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 04:36:43 +0000

Well, aside from the occasional eye twitching or jaw clenching, I just try to go with it. I've learned from experience that it's not worth fighting the chaos. Instead, work on changing how you *see* things. I'm all for creating the life I want and using words and affirmations to create what I want. On that note, unless you really want to own this "chaos", you might want to work on adjusting your focus and changing some words around. So instead of owning the (seemingly) bad stuff and saying that you are something (I am confused, I feel confused, My life sucks, etc), change it up...things SEEM to be...I seem to be confused, My life seems to suck...blah, blah. This way you're not owning the (seemingly) bad stuff, it just appears like these things are happening to you. Sorry to get so new agey...it's just a thing with me. Trust me, words and thought patterns are intense. So put the focus on what you want to happen, not what you don't want to happen. Kat’s last blog post..I Feel the Siren Song of the New Purse Calling to Me

By: egan

egan — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 20:15:43 +0000

To me it sounds like you need a trip out of the country. That will make you regain form immediately. egan’s last blog post..Tying off Loose Ends

By: Oxen Cox

Oxen Cox — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 18:53:02 +0000

I like to bitch slap chaos in the face. Let it breed your creativity. Stress is like the man, don’t let the man get you down.

By: emmajames

emmajames — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 11:47:14 +0000

LiLu: Of course! And if you figure it all out before me, share the insight. I have a feeling we’re not the only two souls in this particular boat.

By: LiLu

LiLu — Sun, 22 Mar 2009 17:17:14 +0000

Gah. I am SO with you on this. Please let me know when you figure it out... LiLu’s last blog post..... But You Can't Take the Masshole Out of the Girl